Meet Debby Gies from D.G. Kaye
All about your BLOG: Tell us about your lovely BLOG.
- What is the name of your blog and how did you decide on your blog name?
My blog is https://www.dgkayewriter.com . As a published author I felt it best to make the blog’s name with my author name to avoid any confusion with a fictional or whimsical name. - What prompted you to start on this blogging journey?
While I was writing my first book, Conflicted Hearts I spent the year learning about the self-publishing business. I learned how important it was to think ahead for marketing books, so I needed to build a platform – let people know I existed, make connections with people and share what I learn in the writing community, articles about my work, and share information about fellow bloggers and authors - To date, what blogging achievement/s are you most proud of?
I am most proud of the wonderful friends and connections I’ve made through blogging, the number of readers that follow me, engage with me, share my posts, the awards I’ve received, and the invitations I’ve received to guest post on other’s blogs, such as your Esmé. - How would you describe your own blogging style?
Eclectic. I am a writer, author, justice seeker, and gifted with a good sense of humor. I like to post 3 times a week, but often there will be a few surprise posts that creep in. On Tuesdays, I like to post something personal about something I learned, felt unjustifiable, or about memoir writing. On Fridays, I’d like to get back to doing guest author interviews, but in the absence of doing those interviews, I keep Friday posts geared towards writing tips or authorly news. And, every last Friday of the month I contribute to the #WATWB (We are the World Blogfest) where all participants post a blog share of something uplifting and inspirational to share positive things about what goes on in the world to deflect negativity. Every Sunday I share a new book review from a book I’ve read and posted on Amazon and Goodreads. - What excites you most about blogging?
The friendships I’ve made and the engagement between myself and my readers. We have a wonderful community where bloggers often become friends. Writing can be a solitary and lonely life, so the blogging part provides the social interaction we get with like-minded people. - What platform do you use and why?
I am self-hosted on Wordpress.Org. When I began blogging in early 2013 I started on free Wordpress.com and within the year I learned about marketing and self-publishing and why it was best to own my own blog if I was going to publish books. There were many reasons, but mostly the thought of something happening down the road with the Wordpress.com platform, if it crashed or closed and my content was to be lost began to haunt me. Plus, there is so much more control and options when you own your own website. But don’t be fooled, there are a lot of headaches with being self-hosted, but I just keep learning as I go. - What genre/topic/theme do you blog about? Do you ever deviate from that theme?
Like I mentioned before, my blog posts pertaining to personal stories, articles about writing, news in the writing industry, book reviews, guest posts. I’m a nonfiction/memoir writer so all my own stories are true. Some of my articles are inspirational, some serious, and some humorous. I’m a mixed bag of thought. - How often do you blog per week or month?
I believe I covered that answer in #4. - Do you have any wisdom or tip/s regarding blogging to share with us?
Engage with your readers. Respond to all comments. I know as a blog reader myself how much time it takes to read blogs and leave comments. The least a blogger can do for their readers is reply and engage those who took the time to visit and comment. Why else would we blog if we aren’t trying to build connections and readership? Also, help give a blog post a boost by sharing. Those social media share buttons on our blogs are there for a reason. If I enjoyed a post I always share it on various social media sites. That way my readers can see the post and they, in turn, can share with their readers and may very well become a new reader for the blog I shared if they too enjoy what they’ve read. - Do you participate in linkup parties? How do you feel about it?
I do participate in a few blog linkups, but not on a steady basis. If I have a recent post I feel will add value to a reader with the information I will share it to a linkup. But the reason I don’t do it often is time. I don’t want to feel like a spammer if I shove my links everywhere and don’t spend any time reading a few of the other links. Time is always something I wish I had more of as a blogger and juggler of many things in my days.
All about YOU: Tell us something about you, the real YOU.
- What do you like to do other than blogging?
I like to fit in writing time and reading time. I like to get outside and go downtown with a friend and gab and shop. And my biggest passion is my love for travel. - Where do you reside?
I live in central Toronto, Ontario, Canada. - Are you an indoor or outdoor person?
I would have to say both. I have plenty to do on a daily basis, which leaves no room for boredom. And I love to get out when I can on a sunny day and just do whatever pleases me for the day. But on vacation, I just love to be outdoors, touring, sunning, observing. - Do you still work, and if so, what is your trade/profession
Work? I’m always working, lol. If you mean do I get dressed and go to a job every day, then no. I work at home on writing, reading articles to further my writing, and take care of my home and my aging husband. - Or are you retired? If so, what do you do besides blogging?
Retired? Lol that is so funny because a writer never gets to retire. - Do you wish to be 20-something or the age you are now and why?
Some of my best times and memories were from my twenties. But no, I don’t think I wish to be that age again. I’m quite happy at the age I am now (no disclosure, lol), but sometimes I think about how quickly the years are passing and wish I could just go back a decade and started my writing career then so I could have accomplished more. - What makes your day a good and happy one?
What makes for a good day around here is no glitches – in life or with my computer or blog. And a good day for my husband. - Describe yourself in 3 words.
Optimistic, funny, worry-wart. (Is that 4 words?) - Share with us 3 interesting facts about yourself.
– I’m a great multi-tasker and get my best work done under pressure and deadlines.
– I love to travel, and even though I tend to run into glitches with every vacation I take, it doesn’t deter me, but rather gives me more to write about.
– I’m a good cook, often making up recipes on the spot as I cook, and sadly, those dishes will never taste the same second time around because I don’t use measuring cups. LOL - Do you have any other tidbits to share with us about yourself?
I’m complex but simple.
I love fashion and have a great sense of style, yet I also know when as beautiful as something is, it’s not always best for me.
I have a strong will and determination. If something is broken or isn’t working I will go to many time- consuming lengths to find a way to fix. Yes, that includes people too.
Last but not least:
- Please share with us your social media links, in order for our readers to follow you!
Short bio:
Debby Gies is a Canadian memoir/nonfiction writer who writes under the pen name D.G. Kaye. She writes about real life experiences and matters of the heart sharing life lessons in hopes to empower others.
And the plus one question – Social media profiles!
Please feel free to connect with me on social media and any of my author and blog pages at:
www.dgkayewriter.com
www.goodreads.com/dgkaye
www.amazon.com/author/dgkaye7
www.twitter.com/@pokercubster (Of course there’s a story to this name!)
www.facebook.com/dgkaye
www.about.me/d.g.kaye.writer
www.linkedin.com/in/DGKaye7
www.google.com/debbydgkayegies
www.instagram.com/dgkaye
www.pinterest.com/dgkaye7
www.stumbleupon.com/stumbler/DGKaye7
BOOKLINKS:
Conflicted Hearts
MenoWhat? A Memoir
Words We Carry
Have Bags, Will Travel
P.S. I Forgive You
Twenty Years: After “I Do”
What are you waiting for, I know you want to do the 20 + 1 Interview Questions
I look forward to hearing from you!
It’s lovely to get to know a little more of Debby here on your blog, Esme. Thank you so much for asking insightful questions.
Thanks Norah, Please let me know if you would be interested as I would love to have you here as well. What do you think???
Thank you, Esme. That is a lovely invitation. I’ll give it some thought and get back to you. 🙂
No rush, let me know when ready.
Thank you, Esme. That’s very kind of you. Best wishes.
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Thanks for dropping by here too and reading Norah. 🙂 x
The pleasure is mine, Debby. 🙂
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Great interview. I would be interested to find out the headaches involved in being self-hosted.
WOW – Stevie you do not want me to start on this one. All I can say get the best and I mean the very best webmaster to do it for you. I am still battling.
Lol Esme, I feel your pain. I’m self hosted for 4 years now and still have ongoing issues where I’m seeking help. We’re writers and bloggers, we didn’t sign up for this code crap and technical shyte LOL. 🙂 x
I totally agree. I feel totally swamped and drowned
Are you thinking of self hosting Stevie? There’s a lot of backdoor work and technical glitches and often when a plugin has an update and doesn’t play nice with all the other plugins, you better have good back up to your blog and a helpful friend who knows these techie issues or it could cost even more money to hire someone to fix things. . . speaking from experience! There are also more things to fill in when posting a blog if you have added plugins. It’s not just add an image and a few tags like on WP.com. Those are just a few to mention. 🙂 x
Wish I new about all these before embarking on this madness
Ya, that’s what I said Esme, but now we’re in it, so live and learn, lol. 🙂 And find a friend who is techie to help when you’re in a pinch. I personally drive my self hosting site crazy when I have problems. Some of it isn’t there job to fix, but sometimes they feel compassion and do something to help. Worth a try! 🙂
Thanks, will just have to keep at it, as I am now in at the deep end, swim or drown, and I would prefer not to drown.
That’s how we get roped in, lol 🙂
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Hmm… I think I’ll leave it, thanks.
Had I known what I know now, I would not have gone this route.
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I really enjoyed this post about Debby, Esme. She is a remarkable blogger. I liked her good day ideas too.
Thanks Robbie. Yes an incredible blogger and friend. Not sure, have I asked you about the interview as yet???
Thanks so much Robbie. Nice of you to pop by and leave a lovely word. 🙂 x
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Terrific interview with Debby!! She is the real deal, and I think if we met, we would be like long lost friends (too much laughing and fun). Down deep, she writes from the heart, real stories, funny and not so funny. She’s the best!
I agree with you Jennie – Love her to bits. You have to let me know if you may be interested to also participate in this ‘interview’ series we have. Thanks for considering.
Absolutely! I have my notes ready for tomorrow.
Awesome, no rush. Looking forward to it.
Aw thanks Jennie. I am truly touched by your lovely comment. And absolutely no doubts, we’d have a blast. <3
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You bet we would! You’re welcome, Debby. ❤️
Well when we finally get that girl cruise together with Sally and company, you’re on the list! <3
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Yes, YES!!! 😍
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I’ve known Debby for as long as I’ve been blogging, but these interviews always bring out something new. You don’t use measuring cups, Debby? 😂
Seriously, Debby is a wonderful friend and has given me so much encouragement and support with my writing. I’m determined that we’re gonna meet up in person before my ‘best by’ date is up.
Hi Hugh. What a wonderful ode to Debby. Yes she’s an awesome lady and friend. May I ask if you would be interested at some point to also do an interview here with us? 🙏
I’m about to embark on a blogging break in order to get my next book ready for publication, Esmé. Thank you for the invitation which, if OK with you. I will take up upon my return.
Hugh no problem, this is an open invitation so whenever you can will be just perfect. Thanks and all the very best with your next book. I would love to read your book when available.
I’m planning on publishing it in early October, Esmé. I’ll publish updates on my blog. Thanks so much.
Will check it out for sure all the best Hugh
Lol, thanks for the lovely words Hugh. I agree with you, interviews are always fun to read, especially with our friends. Enough about your expiry date, lol. We will be meeting up!!! And no measuring cups, lol <3 xx
Neither do I like this ‘expiry date’ story!
Fantastic interview, Esme and Deb. The questions were fabulous, and the answers, humorously enlightening. Wonderful all around! ❤️❤️
Hi Tina, thank you so much, Deb is awesome, so are you!! Would you like to also participate? Please let me know if interested
Welcome, Esme. It would be lovely to be your guest ❤️
Hi Tina Whoop whoop. Please may I ask that you pop over to my About page and then then Contact page and drop me an email and then we can chat and get things set up. Looking forward to your email Tina.
Thanks a bunch Tina. Happy to entertain too, lol. 🙂 <3
Wow, great interview! I enjoy pretty much anything Debby’s involved in but this interview is wonderful. Loved the questions and answers! Well done!😊
Thank you for popping over and reading. Would ypu also like to particate? Please let me know, as I would love to showcase you as well.
Thanks for popping by Vashti, and for your always kind and lovely word. 🙂 xxx
Great to see my friend and co musketeer here Esme.. she is an amazing inspiration for us all and keeps us motivated and laughing… Certainly someone I hope to meet in person one day…. ♥
Yes so true Sally. Would love to meet her as well
Thanks Esme. The feeling is mutual. <3
Aw Sal, you got me blushing girlfriend! Thank you for your lovely words. <3 xxx
Hi Esme, I’ve replied to Adele’s comment 5 times already and not showing up. Could you check spam. although I don’t know why it would go there because all other comments are fine.
If you can add this to Adele’s reply, that would be great: Hi Adele. I replied to your comment 3 times but looks like it’s not catching. Lol, once again we are the same <3
A great interview and I never use measuring cups either. <3
Seems like I am the odd one then, as I do use measuring cups and spoons when baking, but not cooking
And that’s probably why your results turn out consistent every time. You da girl Esme! 🙂
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Lol Adele, I knew we were kindred spirits. 🙂 <3
<3 Yes we are, and judging by the FB quiz we are twins. <3
Debby and Adele “Par-Kaye”
I love it. xxx
Lolllllllll I know! 🙂 <3
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Hi Adele. I replied to your comment 3 times but looks like it’s not catching. Lol, once again we are the same <3
Adele – a Note from Debbie she asked me to share with you:
Hi Adele. I replied to your comment 3 times but looks like it’s not catching. Lol, once again we are the same <3
It happens a lot to me too. Word press is supposed to let me know by email when anyone comments, but … xxx
Thanks for this interview, Esme and Debby! As always, I like to learn more about my blogging buddies, especially if it’s a memoir writer. 🙂 I’m getting to know you so well, Debby, that I might run out of questions whenever I finally meet you. Just kidding, of course, as I never run out of things to talk about and ask, and I have a feeling you’re the same.
I especially loved how you said you try to fix everything, including people. And, what a good day represents for you… I couldn’t agree more about being happy about a day without glitches (and a healthy husband), especially these days! 🙂
Thanks for your visit and comment Liesbet. Yes, we should never ever take our health and that of our spouse for granted. It’s a gift
Ahh, thanks so much Liesbet. And you bet, I could just imagine when we meet one day who will be flapping more! Lol 🙂 x
This will be an interesting meeting
That’s for sure! Lol 🙂
Ahh, thanks so much Liesbet. And don’t worry when we meet, I got more stories to fill many books, lol. But it will be interesting to see who flaps more. LOL 🙂 xx
Can’t wait! 🙂
Enjoyed this interview – I found out some more differences Debby – I don’t like to cook, or travel, and I have no interest in fashion! And there was I thinking we were exactly the same!
Hihi, the same but slightly different Stevie
Lol Stevie, is that it now? Are we breaking up? Lol, well at least our ideas and values are the same. 🙂 xx
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No we’re still friends, but I do hate cooking!
Stevie, you have to cook to stay well, but hopefully, you do have somebody that can cook for you.
Ha ha, I can cook, but I don’t like doing it. We eat very healthily but I’d rather be doing other things…
Yup I agree Stevie
Okay, got it! Lol. Just to let you know, I don’t love cooking the way I used to years ago, but we still have to eat. LOL 🙂
I wish we could just take a pill and be done with it lol.
No I still prefer a good home cooked meal.
Hi Stevie, I just saw an email request for permission to the old site. Please note that I have revamped The Recipe Hunter Blog, so please hop over and follow my new site EsmeSalon at https://esmesalon.com/ To Subscribe, please enter your email address to follow EsmeSalon and receive notifications of new posts by email. I look forward seeing you soon.
I’ve done this.
Awesome. Thanks
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Wonderful interview, Esme.
Thanks, Eugenia. I need to ask you as well if you would like to participate and do an Interview??? Let me know please and thanks
Thank you Eugenia 🙂
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Great answers – an entertaining read and minds me to look further at Debby’s blog with which I am so far unfamiliar 🙂
Thank you Osyth – Please do hop over to Debby’s blog. Great stuff. Now how about you also do an Interview here with us???
Esme, I will certainly be a-hoppin’ over to Debby very soon and I will also do the interview for you in the coming days. I have a load on at the moment having been absent from blogging for several weeks whilst I moved across the Atlantic to a new life here in the US for the foreseeable future but I promise I will get on this either before the end of next week … how does that sound? 😊
What a wonderful comment to receive before work this morning. Osyth, That will be absolutely perfect. Just drop me an email (I think you may still have it) on go to my Contact page and just say “Hi” then we can go from there. Thanks again
Thank you Osyth. I look forward to seeing you. 🙂
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You can rely on it 😊
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A lovely interview Debby and Esme. I found myself nodding at a good number of your answers Debby.
Thank you so much for your nodding Bridgid – yes, it’s good to learn more of our fellow bloggers. Thanks for visiting. Not sure if I already asked, but would you like to also participate.
Thanks so much for dropping by Brigid. 🙂 x
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So lovely to get to known you better..Debby and can’t wait to hear the story behind your twitter handle 😉 A lovely interview Esme 🙂 xx
Thanks for the follow here Carol and yes it’s so so awesome to have you all here and get to know you better. Debby, yes, you will have to enlighten us on your twitter handle story. I am glad Carol asked.
Thanks so much Carol. Perhaps I’ll have to write a post about that name. LOL 🙂 xx
Yes yes yes please do I would love to read it Debby
Lol, ok, I’ll let you know when it’s done 🙂
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Thanks so much Carol. And perhaps I’ll have to write a post about that name! 🙂 xx
Perhaps you will…I look forward to it 😉 xxx
That will be fantastic, a must read
<3 Funny nobody ever asked me LOL
Well, now we have and you’re on the hook!!
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Haha…they didn’t? Well…I will be the first then …hehe xx
Yes you are! 🙂 xx
Thanks so much for inviting me here today Esme. What a treat! <3
I am the honored one, thanks for participating and sharing my friend
My absolute pleasure Esme. 🙂 x
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Great to see Debby here. Love her answers to your questions.
Thanks, Darlene. I am so happy with all the lovely bloggers participating in this 20 + 1 Interview Question series.
Thanks so much Darlene 🙂
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